To Stay or To Go? The Housing Question in Divorce | Episode 234

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Should I Stay or Should I Go? Moving Out During Divorce In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha discuss one of the most common and difficult early decisions in divorce: whether one spouse should move out of the shared home. They break down the legal, emotional, financial, and strategic factors that go into this decision, emphasizing that there is no one-size-fits-all answer. Episode Highlights Why this is such a common question When couples begin the process of separation, they are often still living under the same roof. This creates tension and uncertainty, leading many people to ask whether they should leave, stay, or try to make the other person move out. Safety should always come first Ryan explains that the number one consideration is safety. If there are escalating arguments, substance use, or any risk of domestic violence, continuing to live together can be dangerous. In those cases, creating physical separation can significantly reduce risk. The impact on children Even when there is no physical conflict, a toxic or tense environment can negatively affect children. Amy highlights that parents need to consider whether the home environment is emoti