343: Surviving vs. Thriving: Where You’re Settling in Your Career and Life

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Send us Fan Mail I celebrated my 57th birthday with a tradition that never changes, a Carvel ice cream cake. That moment took me back to something simple and familiar, but it also sparked a deeper reflection I hear from so many mid-career professionals right now. You are doing everything right on paper. You are showing up, delivering results, and being responsible. And yet, something feels off. You feel stuck, unseen, or like your career has stalled. In this episode, I challenge the difference between surviving and thriving at mid-career. Because survival mode can look a lot like stability, but it often masks stagnation. If you are playing not to lose instead of playing to win, your career will reflect that. I walk you through three critical areas where this shift shows up quickly and what you can do to take back control of your career direction. First, we look at your work and visibility. If you are only known for execution, you may have unintentionally trained others to overlook you as a leader. I share how to position your unique professional value, advocate for opportunities before they are posted, and lead conversations that focus on impact rather than just tasks. Next, we tal