Fatherhood After Your Kids Grow Up: Who Are You to Them Now?

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Send us a message Episode 219: Fatherhood After Your Kids Grow Up: Who Are You to Them Now? What happens to fatherhood after your children grow up? When your adult child has a hard day, who do they call? Do they call you, or do they turn to their mom, a friend, a sibling, or someone else? If the honest answer hurts a little, this episode is for you. In this Father’s Day episode of Coaching Your Family Relationships, we’re talking about the second half of fatherhood. When your kids are young, your role is clearer. You protect, provide, teach, correct, and guide. But when your children become adults, the old fatherhood rulebook stops working. Your adult child does not need you in the same way anymore, but that does not mean they do not need you at all. This episode is for fathers of adult children who want a stronger relationship, but are not always sure how to show up now. We’ll talk about emotional distance between fathers and adult children, why some dads keep trying to fix and advise, why others quietly step back, and how a father can become more emotionally present without becoming intrusive. Using a family systems lens, we’ll explore how fathers can build connection with adult